Online Dating: Relationship Filter?
September 6th, 2006 by AbbeyPeople are leaning more and more towards internet dating these days because they feel they will be more emotionally protected. They are basically shopping for the perfect mate. I guess I’m just old……. fashioned, but I am unnerved by the impression that I will know someone’s darkest secrets and greatest dreams before I have met them face-to-face - especially when all communication is based on a snapshot or two, which are usually more indulgent than insightful and can depend on the type of person the online dater is trying to snag. That’s right. Snag. Let’s be honest here. Online profiles are basically a net cast out consisting of alluring images and words meant to encapsulate one’s appeal.


One of the joys of living in the village is that you never really feel like you are in New York City. You have all the benefits of bars and restaurants staying open late, and yet you can still see the sky. Two of my favorite spots in the village are the cute modest jazz dive bar